My story is by no means unique, but its my story.
I am a 52 year old mum of 3 wonderful grown up children who are quite simply my biggest success story. I’ve experienced many highs and lows, but always have a strong, ingrained belief that everything happens for a reason. I learn from every situation that life has thrown me, good and bad.
In recent years I have faced the most challenging time in my personal life whilst also dealing with the changes the whole world has faced due to the Covid 19 Pandemic. During this difficult time, I found myself in a situation where my life was turned upside down, I realised that I had lost myself over the years, I had lost my sense of purpose,. My feeling of self worth, self confidence and self esteem didn’t exist anymore, My voice in my relationship felt non existent. I had lost my spark, lost my identity and my own meaning to life. I felt like I was existing for everyone else’s happiness, not my own.
At the beginning of 2020, I found myself at my lowest, I could barely recognise myself and knew something had to change. It was one of the toughest decisions, but I knew I had to find myself again and to do that, I needed to be on my own and start again. As Covid began to take its grip on us all, I made the decision to leave my relationship and start again on so many levels. It was whilst at my lowest point that this deep belief that there is a better life for me that kept me going. My journey of self discovery was long and it ignited a passion in me to help others who had also found themselves stuck, living a life that left them feeling empty. I needed to find my true self and I wanted a life where I could thrive not just survive on an emotional level. Through the help of a life coach, I found out who I was again and my life changed for the better. I live for me now, not anyone else. I give myself time to feel content and grateful for being able to recognise the change that was needed for me to feel happy and live with a feeling of self-fulfillment.
Coaching helped me become who I am today and helped me realise that we all have the ability within us for change, but sometimes we get stuck and just need someone to listen and hold our hand on a journey of self discovery. My own experience was so life changing that I took the decision to train to become a Transformational Life Coach. I became a fully trained and qualified Life Coach and also qualified as an NLP Practioner, I’m constantly learning and have also studied in CBT and have most recently qualified with Animas with a Diploma in Transformational Coaching accredited by the ICF (International Coach Federation) .
If you choose to work with me on your own journey of change, know that I will not judge, as I know we all have our own unique stories. I will listen, and support you and help you move towards a life you deserve that will bring you a feeling of purpose and self fulfilment that is nothing less than you deserve.
Recognising the need for change is the first step, the next steps we can do together.